It’s been said multiple times but the videos I have done on the socio sexual hierarchy are designed to help you diagnose the behaviour of other people. It’s not for you to think of yourself as a member of a special club or a superhero because you self identify as a Sigma male ( for example.)
I’m not kidding! I see so many comments that , when I read between the lines, it’s obvious to me that the commenter is thinking “that sounds so cool…I will be a member of the Sigma club”…Then asks questions like:
Is being a Sigma incompatible with being a MGTOW?
What’s the most Sigma supermarket chain?
If I buy a dog and walk it alone and use it to chat up women, is that Sigma?
Is Batman / John Wick / Indiana Jones / Random famous person a Sigma? If so why – what makes you think he’s a Sigma?
It’s as if the commenter thinks of the archetype (in this case Sigma) as some kind of Superhero unicorn that he read about on the internet….I imagine the kind of conversations the guy has with his boss at work after watching one of my Sigma Male videos:
“BANE : DON’T TELL ME WHAT TO DO ..I’M A SIGMA NOW, I WATCHED A VIDEO ABOUT IT LAST NIGHT…..TELL ME…DO YOU FEEL IN CHARGE?”
Just imagine how he approaches a girl after watching my seminal Sigma Male approaching women videos
“BANE : COME HERE YOUNG HB7. I SAW YOU GAVE ME AN IOI…BOW DOWN ON YOUR KNEES AND FELLATE MY POWERFUL ORGAN…I’M A SIGMA. THE VIDEO I WATCHED LAST NIGHT TOLD ME ALL ABOUT IT”
I’ve done a bunch of videos about Sigma Males, Gamma Males and the socio sexual hierarchy. Now some of you seem to get it – the labels Alpha , Beta, Gamma, Sigma or whatever are simply that : Labels. They were originally coined to describe patterns of behaviour which when exhibited tended to result in varying degrees of social and sexual success.
So you have Alphas – who sit at the top of the tree both socially and sexually. Why? Because they are typically very confident, extraverted, inclusive, leaders of men. Attractive to women, and socially successful.
Sigmas – still at the top of the hierarchy but only sexually if they put forth the effort. Sigmas are much more withdrawn, introverted but still very attractive to women – but they typically have to make the effort to meet them by approaching since they often don’t have ready made social groups.
And so on. Like I say, some of you seem to get it, though there is still a suspiciously large number who comment who tell everyone else that they are an alpha or Sigma because it sounds cool..Rather than honestly evaluating where they are on the hierarchy.
Let’s get on with talking about what the hierarchy is for, and then talking abotu the no1 mistake that I see guys who comment make again and again….Identifying with the label in the abstract, and not thinking about or attempting to emulate the behaviour, mindsets and actions the labels denote (it will make sense when I describe it)
Guys : understand that the numerous videos I’ve done on Sigmas especially are there to signpost the mindset, behaviours, patterns of behaviour and thinking of a Sigma Male. Just identifying with it or calling yourself a Sigma doesn’t give you superhero powers. I said repeatedly it’s a difficult way of life and you have to live and breathe it.
It’s just when I see the comments like the example comments (which I made up) , I can read between the lines and see that a lot of you are not getting it. This is life, this is patterns of behaviour. Sigma Male is just a LABEL – which describes REAL WORLD REPEATED PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOUR. It’s not an abstract, removed from reality superhero character. If you hit a SIgma male in the mouth, it will start to bleed.
If you want to improve your day to day life you need to understand this – and like me, like everyone else, including Alpha males, you need to put in the work, dedication to actually dragging yourself up the socio sexual hierarchy. For a man who wants to live an actualised life, the struggle IS the life, and it never ends. The little pockets of bliss you have with a woman of love never last, if only for the reason a restless soul and never ending desire to see what’s on the other side won’t ever let you relax (especially if you are a real Sigma). One final time : it’s not a panacea, it’s real life and you need to go out and grab it, engage with it to reap the rewards.