🇬🇧Sex In London | London Sex Guide : How To Get London Hookups TONIGHT!

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Ready for the inside scoop on sex in London? I’m about to dish out all the juicy details on how to get laid in London quickly, on a budget, and with zero fuss.

We’ll explore the top dating apps for instant hookups in London, how to meet London girls as an older gent, and the ultimate tactics for picking up stunning London gals.

Plus, we’ll dive into London’s singles nightlife, so you can mingle with the locals while exploring the city.

Steve Jabba Key Tip - The Best Way To Get Laid FAST!

The quickest, easiest and most exciting way to hook up with London girls is by using the famous hookup site Adult Friend Finder.

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👧🏼London Ladies: Height, Weight, and Looks

Here’s the scoop on London ladies for those aiming to score a hookup:

London gals average around 5’6″ in height, with a blend of tall and petite stunners. Generally, they’re slimmer than girls from the rest of the UK and definitely the USA.

Yet, this is slowly changing as attitudes and culture shift (more on this soon).

London is a cosmopolitan melting pot, attracting girls from around the globe who come seeking adventure, work, or just a visit.

Expect to find smoking hot Eastern Europeans, Latinas, and Asian gals all over, along with ambitious and intelligent UK ladies flocking to the big city for a taste of the high life.

If you want to get with these girls, the best hookup dating site in London is Adult Friend Finder as mentioned earlier.

For guys under 35, it’s the most effortless way to hook up with gorgeous London ladies.

Steve Jabba Pro Tip 2 – For Men Over 35!

For men over 35, Ashley Madison is your best bet.

This site is packed with stunning London ladies (they outnumber men 4 to 1), and they’re seeking older gents who know how to treat them right.

If you’re over 35, appreciate beauty, and don’t mind splashing the cash on dates or whisking ladies off on romantic escapes, Ashley Madison is a fantastic resource for meeting high-quality women worldwide.

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😍London Ladies’ Attitudes and Turn-Ons

Life in London is rough and costly, so local ladies need to adapt. Fortunately, the city is overflowing with men eager to do everything for them, foot the bill, and treat them like royalty.

Indeed, London is paradise for beautiful ladies, as the city is teeming with eligible bachelors. Don’t forget, London draws the best and brightest men from across the globe, making the competition for attractive ladies fierce.

This means London ladies tend to be attracted to straightforward, direct, and somewhat dominant behavior. They value traditional gender roles and appreciate more “manly” behavior than ladies in the USA or the rest of the UK.

Speak to them clearly, be bold when showing your interest, and always take the lead. Don’t over-emote or reveal vulnerability until you know them very well.

Unlike the USA or the rest of the UK, London ladies won’t be impressed by excessive sensitivity. Trust me – getting too emotional or sharing too much about your feelings too soon is a massive turn-off for London ladies.

London Nightlife for Singles: The Real Deal

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Let’s dive into London’s singles nightlife and uncover the truth.

Firstly, London is a popular tourist destination, so steer clear of clubs swarming with eager European and American men trying to hook up with hot London ladies, just like you!

Secondly, brace yourself for intense competition from local guys! London men are typically good-looking, strong, and many are well-versed in the art of seduction (did I mention London was the PUA capital of the world?)


Here are some of the top clubs in London with a decent men/women ratio where you might score a London hookup:

Curious about what London clubs are like? Check out this video showcasing what you can expect as a single guy hitting the London club scene:

Here’s a list of the clubs:

Carwash London
Fabric London
Luxx Club London
Boujis London
Egg London
The Cuckoo Club
Tabu London
101 Nightclub London

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What You Need To Know About London Nightlife for Single Guys

The primary challenge you’ll face when trying to hook up with London ladies in clubs is the unfavorable male/female ratio. I’ve experienced it countless times in central London – both in the city center and surrounding areas – where clubs were filled with eager guys attempting to get lucky with gorgeous London ladies.

And don’t think the ladies aren’t aware of it! As time passes, nightclubs and bars seem to become less about hooking up and more about ladies showing off their ability to reject men’s advances, even if they’re genuinely interested.

Another issue unique to London is the caliber of the local men. There are so many wealthy and good-looking men in London it will make your head spin.

It seems that the minute a hot lady sets foot in the city, an invisible force starts to take effect, and she is instantly swept up in a vortex of well-off, good-looking men doing everything for her, buying her gifts, and treating her like a princess just to get into her pants.
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No matter where you meet a hot lady in London, I guarantee you she has multiple options from local guys – so your game needs to be on point – especially in the clubs.

That’s why I recommend giving the dating apps I mentioned earlier a shot.

Adult Friend Finder if you’re a younger guy just looking for a hookup.
Ashley Madison if you’re over 35 and open to a relationship too (with extremely attractive women!).

Steve Jabba’s Pro Tip 3 – Using Mind Control To Get The Hottest Girls

Another thing you can do is try out a set of specific techniques called “The Scrambler.”

This cool new dating product I found lets you perform freaky “mind-control” on ladies so that they end up becoming attracted to you, even if you’re not a conventionally attractive guy.

It works on even the hottest ladies. I tried it myself and recommended it to several people – they pretty much all ended up hooking up with hot ladies!

Get the lowdown on the Scrambler method here – it’s pretty neat!

😛Tactics and Techniques for London Clubs

It’s common to find a five-to-one ratio of men to women in clubs and bars throughout London – there’s simply no avoiding it.

The best strategy is to be direct and straightforward, gauging her interest based on her reaction to your approach. This way, you can quickly assess your options.

As we discussed earlier, London ladies appreciate a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to show it.

Start by making eye contact, then approach her with a direct opener. A compliment works well, followed by introducing yourself.

Inside the club, position yourself near the bar, dance floor, or other areas where you’re more likely to strike up a conversation with a lady.

You must maximize every opportunity,
especially if you’re in a sea of competing men!

When approaching London ladies in clubs, avoid being overly aggressive or pushy; it’s a turn-off.

Finally, use powerful body language to attract the ladies.

Steve Jabba’s Pro Tip 4 – Hookup in London Clubs

On the subject of powerful body language, I recommend a new dating product called The Obsession Method.

This simple dating product teaches you really powerful body-language tricks that you can use to get ladies super attracted to you in minutes.

You can use it in places like clubs, bars, and even in coffee shops!

It’s ideal for places like London where the competition is so fierce.

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☀️How To Meet Girls In London In The Daytime (Daygame)

You will see hot girls strolling around in London in the daytime, and there are some basic rules of thumb that I can give you to stand you in good stead if you want to approach:

Rules For Daytime Approaching In London

  • Try to make eye contact with the girl before approaching. Smile at her, give her some sort of signal.
  • Be direct and straightforward in your communication with her. Don’t try and hide your intentions.
  • You don’t need more than 3-4 minutes of conversation to get her number and/or go on a date with her.
  • Try “warmup” or “hit and run” approaches before you attempt a full cold approach. This will help you get over approach anxiety.
  • This is only a tiny fraction of what you will need to know if you want to know how to pick up girls in London effectively.

The best resource to help you learn to be confident and display powerful body language when you approach girls in the daytime is the Obsession method that we talked about earlier. It teaches you to “fake it until you make it”, and give off the appearance of utmost confidence – FAST!

You can watch the video, learn a few key principles, and start approaching hot women today.

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🗺️Where To Meet Girls In London

Daygame Hotspots To Meet Girls And Get Laid

Here’s a curated list of where to get laid in London using Daygame.
Kings Road In Chelsea

Here’s a map of the Kings Road route that you can take:

This was always one of my favourite spots in London to approach women in the daytime. As a professional pick-up artist I had to occasionally me picking up girls in London, and I always headed straight to Kings Road whenever I was making a video.

If you want to know where to meet girls in London, I would recommend Chelsea and the surrounding areas, especially if you like well-bred super hot girls from all over the world.

You’ll meet hot, classy girls on the Kings Road and in Chelsea in general. It’s one of the most attractive and civilised parts of London and a joy to take a stroll around in your free time.

Oxford Street – from Tottenham Court Road Intersection up until Selfridges


Selfridges In London – A Mecca For Daytime Approach

This is a legendary daygame route and was at one time the mecca for pickup and daygame back around 2014. You would see about 8 – 10 guys camped out on this route, waiting to pounce on girls as they walk past!

It’s perfect because the footfall is constant and uninterrupted all day long, regardless of the weather. The bonus is that if the weather takes a turn for the worst, you can duck into Selfridges and attempt to chat up the hot store-assistants: Selfridges is full of them!

Things to remember on Oxford Street:

You snooze, you lose. If you make eye contact with a girl, try to approach quickly. You never know when she is going to dart into a store and stop you from approaching.

Try not to let the energy of the street affect you. It sounds weird but Oxford Street is a frantic place, and you can find yourself walking faster if you don’t catch yourself and deliberately slow down.

If you decide to approach in Selfridges, be subtle about it. You don’t want the embarrassment of being thrown out of the store for trying to pick up girls!

Covent Garden And Nearby Areas


This is a great place to try to approach women in the daytime in London. It’s much more relaxed than Oxford Street and for a lot of guys, not so intimidating as Kings Road in Chelsea.

It is increasingly hard to meet actual English people in London, but Covent Garden especially is tourist central. You’ll see women from all over the world walking around, and since London is such a vibrant and famous city you never know what kind of girls you might meet.

Any time of day is good around here, but particularly from around 1 pm until around 7 pm. There are loads of traditional English pubs, chain restaurants and cuisine from all over the world all around London and Covent Garden is no exception, so it’s easy to stop for a pit stop and get some food in between bouts of approaching women.

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I know what you’re thinking. Liverpool street? A train station?

Well, not quite. You can always guarantee that this place will be full of smart pencil skirt secretary types and remember the old maxim too: where there’s money there’s skirt. Or something like that.

The point is that there are always loads of sexy, smart-looking girls walking around with here wearing heels and carrying a mini-briefcase. If you’re a guy that likes this type of woman instead of a jeans-wearing student type you’ll do very well here.

Of course, this is a busy area, so you will have to do a 2-4 minute approach, make a very big impression and then try to get her number and/or a quick coffee date (most likely at Liverpool Street station itself).

Secondly, make sure you dress well. You don’t need to be in a suit or even wearing a shirt and tie, but your clothes must fit properly, no trainers and no carrying a rucksack – it just looks a bit out of place here and not in a good “peacocking” kind of way. It just makes you look a bit daggy.

🏦London City Information

Consistently listed as the No 1 most iconic city on the planet, London is loud, vibrant, multicultural, rich and bursting with frenetic energy.

It’s the capital of the UK and the largest city in Western Europe.

Greater London, located in the South-East region of England, sits along the River Thames.

Its official population is slightly above 8 million, although this number doesn’t fully represent the city’s true size and significance.

London metropolitan area has a population of slightly over 14 million.

Regardless of its population numbers, the venerable London has more famous sites and artefacts than any other city on Earth.


ℹProstitution And Sex In London: Background Information

In Great Britain (England, Wales, and Scotland), engaging in sexual activities in exchange for monetary compensation is legal.

However, several related activities, such as soliciting in public places, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping, and pandering, are illegal.

In Northern Ireland, paying for sex became illegal as of 1 June 2015.

The sex laws regulating sex work are not always strictly enforced.

There have been reports of police forces turning a blind eye to brothels, though there have also been crackdowns on brothels in cities such as Manchester, London, and Cardiff, some of which operate under the guise of “massage parlours”.

Although the age of consent is 16 throughout the United Kingdom, it is illegal to purchase sexual services from a person under 18 years of age where the perpetrator does not reasonably believe they are 18 or older.

In England and Wales, paying for sexual services from a sex worker who has been “subjected to force” constitutes a strict liability offence. This means that the client of a sex worker can be prosecuted for the offense, even in the absence of fault or criminal intent to force a sex worker to provide sexual services for them.

👧🏼London Call Girls/Escorts / Hookers

You will find the vast majority of London calls girls (escorts) online. Street prostitution is very uncommon in the UK, as you will discover.

London is one of the most cosmopolitan cities on the planet, and this is reflected in the range of call girls available. The majority are from Thailand, Brazil, Eastern Europe, Japan – but you’ll find call girls from all over the world in London.

You only need to do a Google search to find London call girls and escorts, so there is no need to rehash that here. Another option to find independent escorts is to use Adult Friend Finder.

How do you identify call girls on Adult Friend Finder? Simply ask! Generally speaking, if the girl’s photos are naughty and she has a sexy profile, she is open to some fun for money.

Price Of Warsaw Call Girls / Escort/ Hookers

So how much does it cost for a London call girl ASKA London escort? I warn you – it is NOT cheap.

I checked a number of sex escort websites in London and the average cost for a London escort/call girl is 6000 CZK (254 EUR, 268 USD). It is basically the same price as the UK or USA (or Germany), where the majority of tourists come from who look for sex with London girls.

And how hot are the escorts and call girls in London? Pretty hot as you would expect considering the high level of beauty of UK Women. Here’s a sample of hot London escorts/ call girls:
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👠Street Prostitutes/Call Girls London

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This is where it can get very seedy, dangerous and dodgy.

You will struggle to find street walkers selling sex in London, though the one area you might find some action is always Central London. Head to Soho (see map on this page), Tottenham Court Road, Leicester Square and Charing Cross road for the best possible chance.

The vast majority of sex work in the UK and London is now conducted online, and street workers are lower quality and harder to find.

Don’t expect to see street prostitutes wearing revealing clothing either – infact British girls are not averse to wearing sexy outfits, so you MUST NOT mistake a “civilian” girl for a street walker, and certainly, never ask “how much”. LOL.

Stick to the red light areas which you’ll find below for the best chance of finding street prostitutes.

⚠Warning About Street Prostitutes/Call Girls In London

Need I say that street girls in London are desperate and are breaking the law already, so the chances of you encountering trouble are high.

It is totally unregulated, and there is a VERY high chance that a street prostitute will work with other people to rob you or otherwise exploit you.

There is also a decent chance you will be physically assaulted if you try to pick up street prostitutes, not to mention the higher risk of STIs.

Overall, you should avoid street prostitution in London – it’s simply too much trouble and too risky not to mention depressing.

🏮London Red Light District And Brothels

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You’ll find London’s primary Red-Light district in Soho, Central London.

The main streets where you will find sex workers are :

  • Frith Street
  • Brewer Street
  • Soho Street
  • Walkers Court
  • Greens Court
  • Peter Street
  • Rupert Street

Other red light areas come and go. Here are some more areas where you may find sex workers:

  • Kings Cross
  • Picadilly Circus
  • Charing Cross Road East
  • Leicester Square

These areas contain brothels, massage parlours, sex shops and naughty lap dancing clubs.

Here’s a handy map showing you the red light districts in London in one place:

🏩Brothels And Models Walk Up In Red Light District, Soho, London

You’ll find two main types of illegal brothels in the Red Light district in London – massage parlours and Models walk up places.

If you decided to take a Thai or Chinese massage, the masseuse will invariably ask you if you want extras after about 10 minutes into the massage, usually after tickling your balls and massaging your intimate areas. You’ll have to hand over extra money to get the “full service” (usually an extra £30).

These massage parlous are spread all around Soho, Oxford Circus, Picadilly, Leicester Square, Covent Garden – basically the entirety of Central London.

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Lots of these all over central London. They often offer “extras”

Models Soho Walk Ups in Central London

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There are loads (probably thousands) of prostitutes working in tiny bedrooms all around Central London. If you walk past a building with an open door and a sign saying “models”, there will be hookers in the apartments in the building offering their services.

You just need to knock on the door and negotiate a price.

It’s all rather sad and depressing, so not recommended – but don’t say I didn’t tell you about it.

Dangers And Annoyances In The Red Light District, London

Be warned: there are loads of scammers, thieves and rip-off merchants in Soho in London. In particular, the strip clubs are known as “clip joints”, and will entice you into the venue, and then bring the most expensive bottle of champagne to your table once you sit down – whether you asked for it or not.

If you complain they don’t listen, and will bring out heavies to march you to the nearest cashpoint to withdraw 100s of GBP if you refuse to pay.

Your only realistic option is to run away before the heavies appear (or avoid these places altogether).

👠London Strip Clubs

There are two main types of strip club in London:

Legit strip clubs, where you watch the girls dancing and you can pay for a private dance.

Dodgy strip clubs, which are mainly clustered around the the Red Light district (AVOID THESE!). There is nothing much more to be said about the dodgy strip clubs, except you will NOT get extras and you WILL get ripped off!

Legit, respectable strip clubs in London

The easiest way to find these strip clubs is to simply search them on Google Maps. I’ve added a custom map at the top of this section to show you a list of the most well-known strip clubs in London.

All of these places are perfectly safe and can be very enjoyable, due to the large number and variety of girls working there. You will NOT get extras in these strip clubs!

👧🏼Meet Beautiful Young Sugar Babies In London

Escorts or call girls in London are all very well…But there are alternatives.

Have you thought about trying to meet sugar babies in London?

These girls are typically very beautiful, and they are also extremely keen to meet a guy who can “look after them”.

However they do NOT want to escort, but prefer instead to meet a guy in a more conventional way, but with a twist…They’re looking to meet an older man who has wealth, who can spoil them, take them to nice places, buy them gifts and so on.

When you meet a sugar baby, you get all the advantages of a beautiful escort (infact sugar babies are usually way hotter!), but without the risks..

Plus sugar babies are often on the lookout for a more serious type of relationship.

These kind of relationships are NOTHING like paying for sex. Often it’s a grey area – a quasi “vanilla” relationship where the girl actually develops feelings for you…

But she simply wants you to have money.

A great way to get started is to try out Ashley Madison. There are THOUSANDS of girls in London looking for a guy on this site, and MILLIONS worldwide.

The site also boasts on average 6 times more women than men! It really is a paradise for men.

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🎦 London Live Sex Cams

Do they have live sex cams in London? Certainly! I’ve picked out the best live cam sites in London if that’s your thing – and you can also watch these live cam sites from anywhere in the world!

When you try this live sex cam site, you’ll be able to take control and tell the girl what you’re looking for and get her to perform various sex acts at your command.

It’s free to sign up, but with a paid membership you have a better chance of fulfilling your adult sex fantasies anywhere in the world!

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🛏Erotic Massage London

There are loads of erotic massage parlours in London, and you can also get an outcall massage girl too (incall is better though).

Unlike street call girls, erotic massage parlours in London are safe, and you’re unlikely to be robbed, beaten or scammed in these establishments.

However, you will probably struggle to get full sex in these places, since only erotic (tantric) massages are on offer.

Here’s a handy-dandy map of the best erotic massage parlours in London:

😎The BEST Ways To Get Sex Now In London Are…?

The best way to get sex with a girl in London that is safe, relatively inexpensive and much more satisfying than simply paying for an escort is to try the following:

Best For A Quick Hookup / Sex Date

Adult Friend Finder is your no1 choice.

  • Tons of hot girls in London and worldwide.
  • All the girls are looking for sex.
  • Very little competition from other men.
  • Girls are DTF!

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Best for sugar babies/ hot girls for older men

If you’re an older guy and you don’t fancy your chances with a quick hookup, try sugar dating.

There are MILLIONS of girls on these sites looking for an older guy with means.

Often you can transition into a normal loving relationship with the girls on these dating sites.

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  • Great for older men
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