If youâre looking to meet girls in Birmingham (UK) then youâre in the right place. Birmingham is the UKâs second city but unfortunately, you wouldnât think so based on the lacklustre dating scene in this West Midlands megacity.
In this article, youâre going to find out the best nightclub, pubs, online dating sites and daytime locations to meet hot Brummie girls, as well as accommodation options.
Despite its status as the UKâs second city, Birmingham can be quite a difficult place to meet women, but by the time youâve finished this article, youâll know exactly what you need to do to meet hot girls in Birmingham.
Best Place To Stay In Birmingham
Without question the best place to stay in Birmingham is The Marriot, right in the centre of the city.
From here you can venture out around Brindley Place and visit all the bars and clubs, as well as some of the more upper-class parts of Broad Street. There are also loads of places around the Mailbox to check out some of the posh shops if you get bored of trying to meet women.
Why the Marriot Hotel at the Mailbox? Because itâs right in the centre of the city with easy access to the bars, clubs and restaurants so you can easily take a girl back if you meet her on a night out or on a date.
Second, itâs a decent quality hotel so you can be proud to bring a girl there. It gives you Brownie points.
The AC Marriot is good quality, right near the action and perfect to bring a girl home
Use this link to get the best price at the AC Marriot on Booking.Com
Bars And Clubs In Birmingham
There are numerous bars and clubs clustered around the centre, conveniently located right near to the Marriot. Hereâs the list:
Clubs And Pubs Birmingham
- Popworld Birmingham
- The Night Owl
- Lab11
- Pryzm Club
- Spotlight
- Snobs
- The Nightingale Club
- PST
- Tunnel Club
- Bambu
Fun and happy club with disco balls and a light-up dancefloor
60s 70s and 80s music with a retro vibe
Hardcore warehouse club for the veteran clubber
Huge multi-roomed club with spectacular light shows
Late-night bar in Digbeth where you can dance the night away
One of the most famous clubs in Birmingham with a 1400 max capacity
Gay club with fire eaters and Go-Go dancers!
Three rooms club with a terrace and chilled out music
Underground club for guys who take nightclubbing seriously
Posh club where famous people often go. Wear your best gear only!
Map view of the recommended clubs and bars on this list
Check out the map and youâll notice youâre smack bang in the centre. The Mailbox is one of the highlights of Birmingham and youâre within walking distance of all the main attractions (plus itâs one of the very best locations to see Birmingham girls strolling around in the daytime (more on this later)
The Mailbox â One of the tourist attractions in Birmingham and the best area to stay
You need excellent logistics if youâre going to maximise your chances of pulling an attractive Birmingham girl. The city can be quite raucous and occasionally dangerous at night, so you need to stay in the best area, plus you want to make it as easy as possible to extract a girl from the venue back to the hotel.
The Marriot is right next to some of the premier clubs and bars in the Mailbox area so you wonât have trouble persuading a girl to come back with you in the wee hours (or indeed in the daytime!)
Meet Girls Online In Birmingham: Pro Tip
Going to nightclubs or indeed approaching women in the daytime isnât for everyone â plus both of those scenes have been declining in recent years. If you want to maximise your chances of meeting a sexy girl in Birmingham, you have to go online.
Before you recoil in horror at the thought of endless swiping on Tinder with zero matches, I have another solution for you: a sugar daddy site.
This might sound a little out of the ordinary but hear me out. Sugar daddy sites have been steadily going mainstream, and those of us in the know (including me) have been dating hot girls off these sites for YEARS. Better yet, a little known secret of the inner workings of one particular sugar daddy site is that there are millions (yes millions) of girls on there who are just looking to meet a guy WITHOUT being paid for an âarrangementâ
This sugar daddy site is by far the best I have ever found.
There are loads of hot girls living in Birmingham on this site â I know because I have checked â and you can arrange to meet them BEFORE you even arrive in Birmingham. Itâs even got a free trial if you use the link above
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Who is this strategy suitable for? Any guy who is a little bit more introverted..Or just likes hot girls from Birmingham!
Meet Girls From Birmingham In The Daytime
If youâre feeling brave you could always try daygame â the art of approaching and attracting women in the daytime. This is most suitable during the summer months (May-end of September). Now if youâre staying in the centre as I recommend you have several options to approach women in the busiest parts of Birmingham with good footfall. Here are some of them:
- The Mailbox: this is where youâll find the hot classy girls with taste!
- Broad Street: better in the evening. Hop between the bars and clubs in this guide and youâll see girls walking around. The problem is of course that youâre unlikely to find a solo girl.
- By the New Street station, although this isnât the prettiest part of town, it IS one of the busiest, which is exactly what you need if you want to try daygame. Best times to go at a weekend: between 2 â 7 pm.
- Victoria Square: A big open space which leads to some small parks where you can approach women sitting down.
- Selfridges in the Bullring shopping centre (and the Bullring itself): Malls and high-end stores are always good spots for daygame, but be aware they often make you feel more self-conscious (because others can hear you talking to a girl you just met)
Example Daygame Approach On An English Girl In London
So how do you do daygame? Well hereâs a video of me approaching an English girl outside Knightsbridge tube station in London to whet your appetite.
Meeting Girls In Birmingham, UK: The Bottom Line
This should give you a good starting point in your quest to meet girls in Birmingham. The 2 most important factors are:
1: You must have good logistics â this is why I recommend the Marriot hotel right in the centre of the city.
2: You must choose a method to meet women that works for you. Itâs not an easy thing to do for most guys.
Nightclubbing can be fun but is exhausting. Daygame is exhilarating but too nerve-wracking for most guys.
Which leaves us with online dating.
Itâs worth mentioning some of the advantages of the sugar dating site I recommend:
Advantages Of Online Dating In Birmingham
- 6 times more women than men in the Birmingham area
- The majority of them are hot
- Free sign up
- Girls are looking to meet a guy â unlike Tinder (where they mostly just swipe for validation!

Itâs worth a try just to check the girls in the area â there are tons of hotties. You could even sign up BEFORE you come to Birmingham to try and line up some dates (near the Mailbox!) so that you maximise your chances.
Whatever your choice, I hope you have a great time dating girls in Birmingham. I wish you the best of luck!
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About The Authour
Steve Jabba is a veteran dating coach from the UK with over 10 years of experience in guiding men to meet the girl of their dreams. This includes live training âin fieldâ â in the daytime, nightclubs and of course using online dating.
He has produced a bestselling book and 7 hour video series on the art of attracting women, and coached thousands of men through his dating website and popular Youtube Channel.