Bangkok: one of the most visited cities in the world, mostly by men seeking to bonk those sweet Thai girls. But how do you get laid in Bangkok easily and quickly – without paying for it?
I’m going to show you the top 3 ways to get laid in Bangkok – using an online dating site, in bars and clubs, and in the daytime.
Here’s a sample of girls on Adult Friend Finder in Bangkok (these are real female profiles)
☀️Where To Meet Girls In Bangkok In The Daytime (Daygame)
Here’s a handy dandy video explaining all about the best places to meet girls in the daytime in Bangokok:
Daytime approaching in Bangkok
First of all, forget approaching on the streets during the daytime in Bangkok: it is far too crowded, dirty, humid and generally inimical. Since the military coup there are police everywhere on the streets of Bangkok, and they’re just looking for a way to exploit you, making it very unpleasant to spend significant time walking around the streets.
It’s nothing like Europe where you can stroll around in comfort in the daytime. If you insist on meeting girls in Bangkok during the daytime, you have to go to the shopping malls.
Siam Paragon Mall – the best place to meet Thai girls in the daytime
Siam Paragon, Bangkok
Siam Paragon Mall is an enormous, 12,000 multistorey shopping centre right in the centre of Bangkok. According to Wikipedia, it can hold 5,000 people at any one time.
Consider that Thai girls love to wander around shopping malls, and with potentially 3000 – 4000 women to approach (there are always more women than men in shopping malls), you can begin to see why it’s a great option.
Best way to approach: Thai girls can be a little afraid when you approach them because they are unused to it. Most Thai guys simply don’t approach women in a confident way, so you’re going to stand out when you rock up, balls to the wall and start spitting your game at her in broad daylight.
Try approaching them indirectly, then giving her a compliment after the initial opener. This is probably the most effective strategy.
Moreover, you want to make sure you don’t miss easy or more subtle opportunities with girls who are open to your approach. My Secret Society video series teaches you how to spot subtle signs that girls want you to approach them, and then what to do after.
Worth checking out if you want to know how to approach and escalate with Thai girls in real life.
Other malls to meet Thai girls in Bangkok
If for some reason Siam Paragon Mall doesn’t take your fancy, there are other shopping malls in Bangkok where you can meet Thai girls. Here are a few:
Nightlife In Bangkok
Now I’m going to be honest: it’s really difficult to avoid ladyboys and hookers when you try out Thai nightlife. You can be chatting to a Thai girl, everything seems to be going well so you start to walk home with her, whispering sweet nothings into her ear and then…
She starts talking about money.
So, if you want to totally avoid the seedy bar and club scene, go further away from the centre of Bangkok.
The best place to go is route 66. It’s huge, always open and attracts the best-looking girls in Bangkok (that aren’t hookers)
Route 66, Bangkok
Don’t go until after 10 pm, because it’s totally dead before then and you’ll be standing around awkwardly looking for a girl to talk to.
Here’s a sneak peek of what Route 66 in Bangkok is like!
Other nightclubs and pick up bars in Bangkok
You could go to Route 66 twice a week and not exhaust the possibilities there, but if you really want to try somewhere else, check out this useful map which shows some of the top-rated clubs in Bangkok.
All of the clubs listed below (which you’ll find on the map (with reviews) have a 4-star rating in Bangkok. These are the best clubs in Bangkok right now:
Nightwalk In Bangkok: Sukhumvit Road And Soi Cowboy
I did mention that it’s not worth bothering trying to meet girls on the street in the daytime in Bangokok – well, that’s even more true for evening/night time.
Bangkok is literally infested with prostitutes, ladyboys and other forms of degeneracy. If you do approach a girl at night and things seem to be going well, something will end up going wrong.
She will either brace you for money, or she’ll turn out to be a ladyboy, or you’ll get beaten up (or all 3).
Anyway, if you want an idea of what the streets in Bangkok are like at night, here’s a walking tour of Sukhumvit Road and Soi Cowboy. You’ll see plenty of Thai girls who look very much like hookers within the first minute or so!
Hopefully you can see what I mean. It’s intriguing to check out the scene for a few times, but after a while you get tired of girls trying to extract money from you.
If you strike out during the night in Bangkok and you struggle to meet Thai girls during the daytime (it is after all quite nerve-wracking to approach a girl stone cold sober), do check out the online dating option I recommended earlier.
There are tens of thousands of Thai girls looking for a hookup on Adult Friend finder, and 100s more join every day. It is probably the most convenient and easy way to meet Thai girls in Bangkok (not to mention much cheaper than going to an expensive nightclub!)
🖥️Online Dating In Bangkok: The Lowdown
You’ll find many attractive girls using online dating in Bangkok
We talked briefly about online dating and dating sites in Bangok in the intro. Here’s why you should consider trying it:
Pro Tip for picking up Thai girls on dating apps:
Don’t be too direct and try to rush her. Thai girls in particular are very sensitive about how other people perceive them, because the entire country has a reputation for seediness, ladies of the night and sex-workers.
So you must “woo” her in the traditional way – but bear in mind Adult Friend Finder is the best of the bunch because you can afford to be a little more straightforward.
Having said that, don’t send her explicit messages, don’t mention sex in your messages and you should be able to arrange dates without too much trouble.
Try Adult Friend Finder in Bangokok for free using the button below:
❓Where to meet girls in Bangkok: night time, daytime and online.
Bars And Clubs
So many guys come to Thailand thinking it is the easiest place in the world to get laid..Well, it can be – but you have to make some sacrifices.
Firstly, be prepared to encounter a lot of hookers, nonsense and hassle when you deal with Thai girls – especially if you go to nightclubs. I’ve tried to paint a picture of what it’s like, but nothing can prepare you for the amount of degeneracy and prostitution you’ll find in Thailand when you go out to a nightclub.
Stick to the clubs on this list if you really want to try nightlife, and you’ll be much better off.
So, it’s easy for the average guy to get laid with hookers in Thailand if he doesn’t mind paying for it. It’s much more difficult if you want to meet a normal Thai girl who isn’t looking for money.
As a general rule of thumb, the hotter the girl you see at night in Thailand, the more likely she is to be looking for money.
It’s better than going to nightclubs, but still not optimal for most guys. The problem is that daytime approaching requires a LOT of practice – especially getting over approach anxiety and making those first few approaches.
Unfortunately for most guys, they will walk around for a few hours and do 0 approaches. Although it seems like a great idea, in reality there are severe limitations of daygame, not least of which it can get pretty boring and dispiriting to trudge around the same mall for hours on end looking for girls.
Online game in Bangokok
This is probably the best option for most guys. You don’t need to put your balls on the line as much, it’s less nerve-wracking, and you can mass mail copy/pasted messages to arrange as many dates as you like.
🤩Get Laid In Bangkok – Start Now
Overall I’d recommend to try Adult Friend Finder, even BEFORE you land in Bangkok. It’s cheap, easy and you can line up dates ready for your trip.
If you’re from the West, you’ll also have a million opportunities to hookup with local girls when you return, making it extremely cost-effective too.
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