Introduction
In this lighthearted video weāre going to compare the differences between the average daygamer vs the sigma male, with a focus on women and dating. Why is it that the average sigma gets hotter women with less
effort vs that average daygamer? What lessons can we learn?
And a note to Daygamers: please donāt be offended. I love you really. Itās just not dignified to see stuff like this tho:
1: Number of approaches
The first main difference between the virgin daygamer and sigma chad is the sheer VOLUME of approaches that a daygamer needs to do in order to take a girl to bed. Iāve met most of them that you will have heard of, and a 2%
success ratio is commonly touted as the average for an experienced daygamer.
Now bear in mind what weāre talking about here: a man approaching a woman in the daytime who heās never seen before and trying to get her into bed with nothing butā¦daygame superpowers. The metric for success is to attract women younger and hotter than the daygamer in question.
On this point, if you have tried daygame and it didnāt work out for you, check out my list of the best dating sites for older guys. You will find you can easily meet attractive younger girls from these dating sites.
Queue hundreds or perhaps thousands of daygamers spam approaching the streets of London, Belgrade , Prague , Warsaw and Kiev , each one chasing girls at LEAST 5 inches taller and 2-3 points hotter. Note: If you want to know how to pick up girls in Prague, check out my related guide.
Joking aside ā itās not an uncommon sight in the height of summer to see daygamers lurking around the main streets due to the high footfall, often in small wolf packs, ready to pounce on the next unsuspecting and often unwilling girl as she sashays past, oblivious to the hordes of drooling men waiting for her. Itās a comical and bemusing sight for the interested onlooker to witness a reasonably hot girl get approached literally 3-6 times on a well known daygame street.
Letās pause for a moment to think what she experiences : out of the blue 4-6 men approach her, all weirdly telling her that they ācouldnāt resist talking to herā, despite the fact āitās a bit randomā but theyād be ākicking themselevesā if they didnāt try. Bizarrely for the girl,they all seem to think sheās French, and that sheās obviously crazy because of her wild hair and long arms. Does she always talk to strange men like this?
Stranger still, ALL of them seem to be afflicated by a mystery muscluar disease, standing with their feet splayed 5 feet apart whilst simultaneously leaning back and looking at her with a quizzical eye. Sheās probably wondering what the fuck has happened to her city : why the sudden arrival of a bunch of short poorly dressed men who seem to think they are in France and have a king size banana stuck up their ass ?
Contrast this with a Sigma, with an average approach ratio of approximately 10-15 %. Spam approaching is out, and instead weāre talking about using social intelligence, forcing a reaction from girls who are initially open to be approachedā¦Or if not, approching girls with authenticity, saying whats on their mind whilst simultaneously being mindful of the feedback sheās giving back to them.
(Reminder that this is what I take you through in my video series the Secret Society)
Itās an altogether more nuanced approach and just seems moreā¦natural and right to the girl. The guy doesnāt seem to be acting, or saying the same shit time and againā¦And she saw him coming before he approached her (bear in mind a Sigma will begin the approach at more than 10 metres away, not jumping in front of her like some lifesize animated and slightly retarded jack in the boxā¦An altogether much more harmonius experience for the girl, I am sure you will agree!
2: Wingmen
Now another difference between the virgin daygamer and chad sigma is the reliance on a wingman. Itās a hysterical conundrum , because the daygamer is SUPER precious about his āVIBEā ā and donāt worry, weāll talk more about that laterā¦And often ends up hating his wingman, competing with him for literally the same girlā¦Yet he still needs him. Manyās the time Iāve seen 2 daygamers casting furtive glances at his wing, thinking ādid that cunt see that hot girl in the distanceā, then calculating whether he can get to her first. Like 2 portly and ageing greyhounds locked in the trap, ready for the trap to open so they can both bound off chasing the preyā¦Except in this case the āpreyā is a slim long legged Irina from Belarus, and the greyhounds are 2 out of shape IT contractors from scunthorpe and southampton respectively.
Itās not uncommon for a daygamer to try and distract his wing, or issue an involuntary elbow to their side, hoping to wind them so they can lug their 20kg overweight ass over to Irina before the other gets their first. Friendships be damned, because in the daygaming community pussy is all that matters.
With a sigma itās a different story. Sigma males have VERY close friendships with confidants and real friends, and know each other well. Itās quite likely that they abide by the mantra bros before hoes, so there is really no competition for women, especially those theyāve literally never talked to. A system for approaching will be worked out beforehand and adhered toā¦Thatās if they even wing together at all. Most often, a Sigma will do his daygame aloneā¦Because are you going to invite your wing to particpate in the bedroom festivities after? No. Dating is a brutal marketplace, and itās something a man has to ultimately navigate alone. Only trusted true friends are allowed to participate in the Sigma circle.
3: Only works in sunlight
Your average daygamer seems to believe that sunlight has talismanic powers (rather like calling a girl French or telling her she resembles an iguana). A bit like Dracula in reverse, daygamers hiss and recoial in fear at dusk or darkness, and wouldnāt be seen dead in a pub or nightclub ā popular locations where hookups often take place for the more normal man!
They believe that direct sunlight confers on them superpowers : magically they are 3 inches taller, with a 40% more robust physique, a 25% more symmetrical facial stuctureā¦And a 2 inch longer ,thicker cock dangling between their legsā¦Which probably explains why they all need to stand with their legs so far apart!
A Sigma is much more catch as catch can. Youāll see them propping up bars, or operating alone in a nightclub as well as preying in the daytime. The point is the Sigma has worked out what the average daygamer has not : that the popular dayagme locations are FUCKING FREEZING for 6 months of the year, and unless evolution has taken a sudden abrupt sideways shift, they havenāt started sprouting round ears atop their heads, a nose that can smell pussy 10 miles away, and superhuman strength, that can tip over cars or climb a mountain at a 30 mile an hour run.
In case you handāt figured it out, human beings arneāt fucking bears and THEY DONāT HIBERNATE DURING THE WINTER!!
4: Vibe Protection
Vibe is EVERYTHING to the average daygamer, and donāt they know it. Itās exactly this kind of smert thinking that allows a successful daygamer to score his 2% success ratio with average to moderatly comley girls with only a hint of a muffin top and a cellulite ridden arse.
Lost your job and about to lose your home?
DO MORE APPROACHES BUCKAROO [jordan peterson voice]
Been wearing the same underpants for 3 days eh and thereās a discernable shit smell wafting from your nether regions?
BLOW YOUR MATES OUT AND APPROACH THAT 2 SET
Worldwide pandemic means flights are grounded and you canāt go to kiev?
NOWS THE TIME TO CRACK OUT THE LATEST body langauge hack at the local train station where waif and stray syrian refugees are congreating!
Now contrast this with a SIgma who realises pussy isnāt all and that life is about balance. Moreover, a technical hack in how you stand when you talk to a girl insāt going to solve all your problems. Work on your mindset first, realise what works and see how you can live outside of the hierarchy.
Sigmaās have usually not had an easy life and they accept that you donāt have the luxury of ignoring other aspects of your life that may be crashing down around your ears. Especially in todayās diffiuclt times.
5: Quality score
By god Iāve seen daygamers with some absolute ROTTERS. Now itās true to say that on average a man can usually get better quality by approaching in real life vs tinder ā though there are other hacks (which Iāll explain later on). So how does this square with the reality that most daygamers average in the 5-6 range?
Despite the stories youāll hear about online, most daygamers will furtively try to hide the girls they are dating if they think anyone else is watching. Why might this beā¦Itās probably got something to do with an evengelical focus on the magic notch count the notion that with sufficient āpracticeā they will move from the sunday league to the premier league the ruthless, cut throat focus on pussy over everything else.
Guys, no one wins when you bang a fatty or a mudskipper. If the girl youāre dating has a hairier chin than you and is only with you becaues sheās cross eyed, sheās probably not worth dating. There isnāt a big XP point sign flashing above your head that the hotter girls can see when you raise your notch count, and if anything bonking lower tier girls that youāre embarassed about will long term screw up your self esteem and make matters worse.
No matter what excuses you make up ā such as one I hilariously read online ā that the hotter girls are INTIMIDATED by your super strong masculine vibe ā admit it and face the fact you fucked a rotter.
But letās be honest, weāve all dipped our quality standards from time to timeā¦But at least the average sigma has the excuse of being drunk.
Or something.