How BlackPill Literally Destroys Your Mind
Did you know that constant despair, negativity and so called “Black Pill” thinking actually destroys your mind? The more often you think in a negative manner, the less able you are to think in a positive manner.
Here’s why :
” …people who routinely experience chronic stress—particularly acute, even traumatic stress—release the hormone cortisol, which literally eats away, almost like an acid bath, at the hippocampus, which is a part of the brain that’s very engaged in visual-spatial memory as well as memory for context and setting,” explains Rick Hanson, Ph.D., a psychologist and Senior Fellow of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley”
If you want to know more about Rick Hanson, here is his profile at the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkley.
So – if you constantly stress yourself through negative thought processes, you are essentially replicating what happens to people who experience trauma such as war veterans, etc. You are therefore literally poisoning your own mind with negativity.
The BlackPill And Dating
I’ve seen quite a few comments on my Youtube channel along the lines of :
“Women just want status and money nowadays. Being charming, in shape and approaching used to be enough. Now it’s all about status.”
“Times have changed. Women are more interested in their Instagram accounts and validation. If you’re not in the top 5% it’s over.”
If you’re more of a mind to actually think about settling down with a girl who you find attractive (and I suspect this is the majority of you) then it’s much easier.
But, there has never been a time in history where it’s been easier to get hold of the most beautiful desirable women IF you’re in the top tier. (I do not mean just looks either). Look at this website and my products Secret Society and Primal Seduction and there’s hours of video on hundreds of thousands of words on how to become this guy.
I’d say that right now in 2019 in most parts of the world, there’s never been a better time for a guy to sow his wild oats. I also believe it’s going to get much more difficult over the next decade and forseeable future as we move towards k selection, brought about by poverty, civil unrest, war and possibly armed conflict over much of the West. (I think parts of Eastern Europe will avoid this fate).
The BlackPill Despairing Attitude About Women Is Wrong
I could go out and within 1-2 hours have pictures of average guys with hot girls. Admittedly I am not in the USA or UK, but this leads to my second point – I didn’t magically gain the ability to live where I want by accident.
I fought tooth and nail, took risks and worked my ass off to acquire the skills to live a location independant lifestyle. Whilst I am in an advantageous location with more beautiful women, it’s exponentially more difficult to actually sleep with them (it’s generally a more K Selected place, less slutty).
Secondly, I have noticed it’s tougher even where I am (I’d estimate by about 2 or 3%). It’s not a big deal.
But as ever, you have to adapt, improvise and overcome.One concept I’d like to mention here is that you tend to get what you focus on, so construct and shape your own reality.
On a micro level, holding comments for review is an example of just that concept. I will no longer have to deal with wretched little Gamma’s leaving their toxic commentary on my videos, because I’m now proactively blocking them.
Another example that will feature in the product is mapping out your route where you will meet women. It’s obvious but I can tell you that 90% of guys who do Daygame (for example) trundle around like programmable robots and pound the same piece of sidewalk day after day, week after week. Of course this is going to feed into a selection bias, breed boredom and in some parts of Eastern Europe, you’ll going to constantly be in contact with the sex industry, seedy, low value, disgusting sex tourists and the like. It’s no wonder that you can end up being depressed. You get what you focus on.
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.
In the very same city you could use your head a little, and focus on what is good , pure and beautiful and map out routes that bring you into contact with more of it. Yesterday I took a walk around the city and I kept noticing young people obviously very much in love. There’s young kids playing musical instruments joyfully dancing around and clapping, clearly just loving the feel of the sun on their face and being alive. That is beauty, that is love. (I cannot include the video clip for fear of disgusting weirdos leaving odd comments and jeapordising this channel).
If you’re thinking hurr durr what has this got to do with picking up women, and how does this apply to ME, 2 points:
1: It’s called thinking laterally. Vibe is probably THE key component to coming across well when you chat to girls, and also just being mentally stable. Noticing these kind of things is benefical to your vibe, and thus your mental state.
2: This video isn’t about you. Think about the concepts. Stop navel gazing.
If you want to meet women sustainably, this is precisely the kind of thing you’ll need to do for vibe protection and general mental health.
I’d also point out that there’s a lot more to it than just changing the route where you habitually walk to meet women. It’s about how you relate to women , whether you have empathy, whether you show love, whether you have boundaries, what your expectations are when you actually talk to girls and people in general.
I’ve been saying this for years, but so much of the advice that you’ll encounter is just plain wrong (bad enough) or actively leads to misogyny and despair. How many articles are there decrying Western Women? Increasingly I see articles like Poland is now “finished”, it’s over. The days of easy sex are long gone.
Well, maybe that’s true if you’re a low value guy who just approaches women with no empathy, no love , offering nothing but just a bag of tricks and the dubious honour of having travelled thousands of miles because you cannot get laid in your home country. Conversely, if you actually have strong boundaries, an expectation of being treated well and the willingness to walk away if you’re not ,coupled with a good vibe, empathy and love for women, then it really makes very little difference.
Bear in mind that there might be some truth to this too, perhaps the hookup culture is dying out. Societal trends always swing like a pendulum, and as I’ve said we’ve probably gone past peak hedonism and are veering in the opposite direction. If so, good! Now is the time that you need to be the best quality man you can be, and offer something more than just slinging dick at the girl.
It is what it is. But if you give in to despair , that’s no kind of life worth living. Adapt, improvise , overcome. Focus on the beauty and goodness in life, construct your own reality and offer quality to the lucky girl that you meet.
Get up every day prepared to fight, because that’s the only life that’s worth living. I think struggle, strife and difficulty is what keeps us strong. If you just give in to the “Black Pill”, give in to despair, you’ll get weaker, more invisble, more sad and pathetic. Think about the good that you can offer to the world and start delivering it rather than just focus solely on acquiring notches and carnal pleasure. In my view that’s the route out of despair and into a happier, healthier kind of life.